Hello, I and my partner have been staying together for the past 5 years. In-between he went abroad for 2 years. After he has been back, I found that he has lost interest in physical relation. Initially we use to have it twice a week, but now we have it once a month. I am 27 and he is 31. When tried to discuss on it, he says that he is not born for physical relation and takes it as the last priority. Both of us are in service and hold a good designation and salary compared to our age and education. Can’t understand what to do. Please help.

Person looses interest in sex for various reasons. He too might have reasons. Try to discuss with him saying, you feel that he is not interested in physical relation as he was. Is there any reasons? Is there anything you can do for that? Try not to blame him or sound it as a complaint. Look after yourself in such a way that his interest increase in you.