Dear doctor, I have been married since 2.5 years now, we both are engineers, I got a good job and my husband had to struggle a lot for his job, he is working and takes good care of me but I always think that he should be having sum good job, designation and good facilities like I have in my office, he has to work till late hours and still salary not that good, whenever I see young men in my office, I always wish my husband should also have such nice office and facilities, due to all this I m always irritated and frustrated, I always think of him getting a better job, since I m constantly thinking of all this, I have started losing memory, I forget things. I m not able to cum out of this though. Sometimes I fight a lot with him stating that he is not capable of finding any better job yet. This is also affecting our relation. kindly suggest how can I stop worrying and comparing my husband`s job with others