I have a personnel problem. I am a working woman. One of my cousins proposed me, immediately I told my mother regarding this. One day my cousin called my mom and asked about matter, she said no and moreover I also felt ok. My brothers, Ram and Ravi both are happy with mom’s decision, so they rejected him. After some days they said yes and accepted him. Suddenly one day I felt may be he is not the right person for me, the reason behind this is, my cousin’s looks are very bad compared to me ( that’s the reason my brothers said no again then said yes) I rejected him. After that cousins came to my home to discuss regarding this and blamed me and said it’s wrong on your part. After few days again I said yes. I fought with my family regarding this and at last my cousin’s family is ready now, but still not satisfied with the decision I have taken. I am feeling as if I am compromising my self and accepting him, and some where I am not happy with this. Now cousin’s family is coming to ask to my brothers regarding marriage, now what should I do. I can’t even tell them that I am not interested and I can’t fully accept him. The only thing I can do is wait for the family’s decision and accept what ever it may be ( I think most probably my mother and brothers will get convinced and accept my cousin ) So what should I do now. I don’t have that much courage to talk with my parents and tell ‘No I don’t want this’ and nor to anyone in the family (reason for this is relations will spoil) I don’t know what to do in this situation (but my cousin is not my kind of person and he is very nice person)