Dear Dr. I must say you are doing a fabulous job. You are spending so much of your valuable time for us all. The advice you gave me last time worked to a very great extent. Thanks a million sir. It is 3 yrs for our marriage we have a daughter who is 1&1/2 year old. I stay with my in-laws. I have another fly issue which I would like to seek your advice. This is a conflict between my mother in law & me. I feel she has a very bad habit of complaining to my husband about me & my fly. She never complains in my presence but when I go to the bedroom / kitchen, I hear her very often complaining about me & poisoning my husband’s mind about my parents. When I over hear these complains it irritates me a lot & I just feel like storming in to the room in which they are & shouting & screaming at her but I have not yet done this. I just cannot stand this behaviour of hers. What do I do sir? My husband loves his parents a more than me, he has, told me this very often. We have also been to a counsellor with our problem. But I feel things are the same for us. I feel my husband encourages his mother by hearing & reacting to her complains. He then reacts by sitting quietly in a corner, isolated. Sir, please advise me. What am I to do, should I react to her behaviour, or ignore them? Sir, please help me out