Hello Sir, We are in a relationship from last 2yrs. And I am Maharashtrian boy n love a jain girl. My parents are ready for our marriage but biggest problem is her parents. They r very orthodox ppl. She is trying to convince them from last one year but no positive response. Also the topic starts once i.e. only one day n then it stops other day. In last one year it just happened for 4 times. She doesn’t have any support from her family. Her father is very short tempered. Her mother supports her a little. She is very depressed because of this. Her parents’ r not willing to meet me or my parents. So, do u think even though her parents r not ready to meet my parents, should my parents meet her parents? But what if they speak rudely n bad words n d situation gets spoiled? She has strong support from my family n I don’t want to spoil that. They r emotionally blackmailing her. She is firm enough to marry me but she also wants her parents’ agreement on our marriage and this is not very possible. She has tried each n every way of making her parents understand. Now even my parents are pressuring on getting us married. We r very much confused. Her caste is such that that even the ppl in her relation would speak ill about her n her parents. Marrying me would b little difficult for her parents too but then every one accepts it. But this is d reason she doesnt want to run away n marry bcos of her narrow-minded family bcos they will talk so much non-sense. On the other hand if we marry in a festive manner so people will speak but not much. also they dont have to live shamefully for sum months. Please help us out. Should v wait for some more time? Should I go n meet his parents? Should our parents meet? We don’t think running away is a good idea and we want that it should happen love cum arranged marriage. Pls sir pls help us. The situation is so much bad. Please advice us. Please.