Dr, I am 28 yrs old women married for 5 yrs. I have a son. I am really tensed with our sexual life. My husband shows no interest in sex and whenever I show interest to him he tries to go away with so many invalid reasons like headache or he wants to sleep. I don’t know why he is doing this. We have a happy husband wife relationship except sexual relationship. He is a good husband and loves me a lot but when it comes to sex he changes. We hardly have sex once in a month also. Sometimes we have fight also over this. I m really getting impatient. Dr please suggest me the right solution.

There are numbers of reason for loosing sexual interest. Married life of only 5 years and happy relations rules out boredom or burnt out. He may have some sexual problem like erectile dysfunction (not getting enough tightness to penetrate) or premature ejaculation (when he finishes too early). Male will always feel ashamed of such inadequacies and hesitate to accept it so he avoids. Having a son does not rule out these problems. Discuss with him about his problem of lack of interest in sex and your needs as well. Take help of psychiatrist as they are qualified sexologist too.